What Are The Challenges of Relationships And Marriages
I am at a point when I am opened to a lot of emotional challenges and find myself being there for people to want to share their hurts and pains with me.
Do I have my own loads of baggage? Of course I do, who doesn't. Do I cry these pains away? I wish.
I am sharing this, I hope to get answers that might just be helping someone who is hurting too. A friend, MIU, posted it.
At what point in a relationship do we recognize that, "this is the person I want to spend the rest of my life with" when in truth we don't have the benefit of knowing what tomorrow might bring?
Could this be the very challenge of relationships and marriages because, along the line (in that future) comes someone more compatible, more compassionate, more loving, resonating to the very sentiments of ...our own heart, and we are momentarily troubled with the choices we had made. At this point, that statement: "this is the person I want to spend the rest of my life with" comes under threat.
How can one prevent boxing himself or herself into such corners at the presence and experience of that emotional buzz called love?