Monday, 31 October 2011

Help , my wife is going Bald and wears wig even to bed!

The above cry for help was part of what made the month of October an nteresting one among other issues
(emotional included, lol) .  I decided to seek wise counsel from a popular forum as the matter too much for me along to solve.

*Mr Abiona* happens to be a family friend of so many years.  We grew up in Lagos with his family , all living in the same area. He got married and the bond was made stronger as we were welcomed into his home as if nothing has changed.  His wife, *Tinuola* is a beautiful, young , full of life lady. Who would have expected the kind of tight corner I found myself when this question was directed to me.

I felt the pain in his voice as *Mr Abiona*, looked at me that hot afternoon, begging to know what he could do to make his wife stop wearing wig to bed.  Me , I was more confused, as in , why me? Then again, I mellow down small, the man just wanted someone he could talk to and who better than a female family friend of many years that he could trust.

A lot of questions were running all over my mind, I had to ask one. Can't your wife fix weave-on instead?  The look in his eyes almost threw me off balance.  The man dey boil and I dey ask yeye questions.  He explained that the baldness don pass where weave-on fit stay for her head.

I got more confused.  You needed to see *Tinuola* when she dresses to go out any day, you go bow, clothe dey cover so many things o.

My simple advice to the man na to try talk to him babe, convince her say nothing do her , whether hair finish for her head or not, he still loves her all the same.

October, hmmmm

Its been like ages since the last time was here. I asked myself why but of course who else has the answer but moi, lol. Actually, I was so caught up with all the response I was getting one of naija's forum. interesting how a lot of people attack you just for the sake of it. I will keep you posted on some of them, they might make your day ( month) like they did mine. \9jamum